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WHY BLACK MEN Love WHITE WOMEN There is no escaping it, the Black men with white women phenomenon never seems to end, and it often appears to be exacerbated by the most celebrated Black men continually choosing white women. Michael Jordan almost went through a divorce because of reported infidelity with a white woman. Bryant Gumbel was going through a divorce while dating a white woman whom he later married, and Tiger Woods was busted dating a white nanny. Then there is Kobe. Next to a loss of life, this may be the highest price paid by a Black man for caucasian copulation. Taken at face value it would appear that I am consumed with the race of women that prominent Black men are choosing. I am not. What has partially consumed me is the reaction I get from Black women all around the country concerning this matter. Over the years, it has just been a casual, but spirited, discussion that has illuminated some ideas and crystallized some previous thoughts. A recent encounter changed all that. I was drawn into a conversation concerning Black men and their white girlfriends by one of the brightest women I know. She is well educated - holding undergraduate and graduate degrees from two of the best institutions in the world. Quite a solid debater and a keen observer of society, yet she was still puzzled by the “enormous” appetite that Black men have for white women. She wanted answers, real answers and she wanted them now. She also said that she “wanted it from a Black man not from the bitter bitches at the beauty shop.” Four hours later she thanked me and told me that she finally understood. It still bothers her a bit but she is a lot more easy with it than before. This book is a more organized and condensed form of that conversation. I have come to the conclusion that all Black women are affected when they see a white woman with a Black man. Many will not admit it but it does bother them to some degree. The conclusions drawn in this book come from years of experience in observing and dealing with Black men and their desires. If you are looking for scholarly empirical data you will not find much of it here. I did not do control studies nor did I conduct statistical analysis to support my ideas. On the contrary, it has been my observation that when one conducts interviews on sensitive issues such as sex and race, almost everyone lies. Not that I haven't tried - I did conduct interviews which were mostly defensive. Having dealt with Brothers in school, on comedy tours, in night clubs and various other social gatherings, I came to the conclusion that my informal conversations were more accurate than a prepared interview. For example, often when I asked the average Black man who was married to a white woman to talk to me about his choice, he proudly responded with something like: “I loved her, she swept me off my feet, we were soul mates, she is good to me, I don't see color” or some other moralistic hokey shit. Generally when I asked the same question to a white guy about his white wife or a Black guy about his Black wife it is usually: “We've been together since high school, we were dating for long time, we moved in together -next thing we had a kid and we just said hell let’s get married.” For couples of the same race, it usually some regular explanation rather than some political sound bite. The answers differed a bit if the woman was there, but for the same race couples it was casual, raw and humorous. If the white woman was there with the Black man then a philosophical defensive discussion ensues. Often times it appeared that they were trying to justify the union rather than answer the question. In short, I wound up with a good deal of false positives. Hence a scientific work this is not. However, if you would like an interesting insightful analysis of Why Black Men Love White Women then read on. This book will illuminate some ideas, crystallize many of your own thoughts as well as promote spirited discussions. It will also answer questions and force you to look at the sexual world around you quite differently. You will certainly never look at a Black man and his white woman the same way after reading this book. While
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